Photo from RepublicDomainHere is a list of common New Year's resolutions with links to tips and strategies to help you achieve them. I've also mentioned friends on the blogosphere who are personally resolving to do some of the following:
1. Get fit. Lose weight. One of the most common New Year's resolutions is to get in better shape physically, to eat better, to exercise more, and to live healthier. Amy, over at
Amy's Humble Musings has resolved to get in better shape, and I love her attitude.
She says:
"It’s not about looking great; it’s about feeling great. It’s not about being able to prance around in workout clothes; it’s just about being able to fit into your regular clothes. I’m all about practicalities."
One thing you can do to make this resolution happen for you is join Amy. She
invites all her readers to join her on her 12 week challenge to get healthier (with a cash prize to whoever does the best), but you've got to hurry up and e-mail her your weight and measurements (see the blog post for details). She's also
blogging her progress.
If you're not interested in joining Amy and her readers, there is still a lot you can learn from them to help you achieve your goal.
1) Losing weight and getting fit with friends makes it easier to stay motivated, keep each other accountable, and have fun doing it. Find a friend and do this together!
2) Writing down your goal makes you way more likely to achieve it. Be specific too!
3) Logging your progress also helps you to achieve your goal. You might want to start a blog to track your progress. You can post measurements, weight, photos, your feelings, what you're eating, how much exercise you did, etc.
Try it. You can even set it to private so no one sees but you.
4) Extreme goals and unrealistic expectations will dog you down. As with all things, seek out moderation to help put this goal within your reach (but make sure that you will have to stretch for it!).
2. Advance your life's goals. This is an important one. It's exciting to read
how much progress is happening in this area for another Aimee, whose
blog I read. One of her goals this year is to get a book written:
"And one more great piece of news: for those who like my writing, there is another major writing project in the works – my first book! Tons of research notes have been taken and all organized by chapter, and I’ve taken my first stab at the actual writing. It will probably take months before I have an actual manuscript (because I’m going to be very busy with all my teaching responsibilities), but this is really exciting for me, the whole reason why I went to school to get my degree: so I could write, with credibility, about the Faith. And also teach, and speak, and evangelize."
This one hits close to home for me because
I share very similar goals. Whatever your deepest, most heartfelt passion is for your life and your life's impact on the world around you, I heartily suggest that you make 2009 the year that you go for it. It's inspiring to see Aimee really living her dream. You can learn a lot from her. 1)
It helps to know what your dream is and to have clearly defined goals for living it. 2)
You have to orient your mindset to plan for success. You have to believe that you can and will live the life of your dreams. 3) If you want to sustain your life and manage your expenses entirely by living out your passion (what can be better than making money doing what you love?), blogger Steve Pavlina explains how you can make a start by
earning your first love dollar.
3. Get closer to God. In the busy mess that is our lives, it's easy for us to push God to the side. Blogger,
unfinishedperson over at
Journeying With The Saints has resolved among other things, to get back to regular attendance at church services and regular daily prayer, morning and evening. Here are a few practical tips to help make this resolution happen for you:
1) Struggling with church attendance? Do what I did: find someone in the congregation who needs rides to church and start taking them. Because someone else is depending on you, you'll have a strong reason to get up on Sunday mornings.
2) Daily prayer a problem? It often seems tedious to pray. We get a mental image in our head of sitting uncomfortably on our knees for hours. To destroy this image, just commit to praying for only 5 minutes when you wake up and 5 minutes before going to sleep. If you keep this habit faithfully and regularly, it doesn't take long for you to start looking forward to it and to start lengthening it to connect more deeply with God.
3) Want to read the entire Bible this year? Try the
Christian Discipleship Journal's Bible Reading Plan. You'll be done with the whole Bible in just one year. It coordinates readings in a really cool way, and the pace is not grueling at all.